The Art of Healing
And, recently, this:
As he ran along the railroad ties on July 11, I was shocked to see that Big Boy’s tail was missing. And then I began to wonder: would it grow back? Because almost a year ago to the day, I had discovered this:
Apparently some – not all – lizards possess the ability to drop a section of their tails and regenerate it as part of a defense mechanism. From UCSB Science Line:
“While escaping a predator, if the predator catches the tail, it will disconnect. The tail lies flopping in the predator’s mouth or on the ground. While the predator is occupied or distracted by the wriggling tail, the reptile runs away.”
You can imagine how excited I was, on July 25, when I zoomed in on Big Boy and saw … yes … the emergence of a new tail (only two weeks later).
For Writers: As writers, we often feel a bit battered and bruised – maybe not with our tails removed, but slapped around, if you will. Mostly, our wounds come from rejection or fear of rejection: from contest judges, from agents, from publishing houses, from reviewers, from readers.
Because writing is such a personal endeavor, it’s easy to feel wounded by criticism or even by silence. We also can feel wounded by circumstance – learning that someone else has written a book similar to ours, that a “competitor” book has a release date before ours, that someone’s book shares a similar book image or the same title … the list goes on and on.
But as writers, I think maybe we, too, can heal – not through incredible cellular regeneration – but by using our minds.
This post by author Kathryn Craft, 10 Writer Affirmations to Bolster Optimism, struck a powerful chord within me – and is testament to the power of positivity (something that can be difficult for all authors and writers at various points in their careers, me obviously included). When I read Kathryn’s guest post at Writers in the Storm, I saw it as a challenge for authors to view themselves less as victims, and more as the creators of their own destiny. (This post is so worth the read. Please read it!).
As an aspiring author, soon-to-be-published-author, or already-published author, do you sometimes feel wounded? How do you deal with those less-than-positive feelings? Do you use positive affirmations? Do you think they can work?